On Loving Money

by Joshua Becker

“Money never made a man happy yet, nor will it. The more a man has, the more he wants. Instead of filling a vacuum, it makes one.” – Benjamin Franklin

The possession of money is not contrary to a simplified life, but the love of money is. The love of money can never be satisfied. It is a hopeless love that always desire more. It is a wasted energy. And more than that, it keeps us, our attitude, and our actions in bondage.

When the love of money is present, freedom is not.

* The love of money consumes our time. Whether we are thinking about how to find it, make it, grow it, or save it, the desire to acquire more robs us of our most important and finite resource: time.
* The love of money wastes our energy. It requires constant, continual attention. After all, no opportunity to acquire more can ever be wasted.
* The love of money devours our values. When the love of money is present in our lives, we become different people. The passion for money is a trap that quickly swallows our heart convictions and causes us to engage in behaviors that we would otherwise avoid.
* The love of money fuels competition. By definition, the love of money requires me to desire what you already possess. For me to gain more, you must part with yours. The world quickly becomes a zero-sum game dominated by jealousy and envy.
* The love of money limits our potential. We can never become greater than that which we most desire. When the acquisition of money becomes our greatest goal in life, we can never become greater than the balance in our bank account. And that’s a shame… we have so many greater things to offer this world.
* The love of money attracts the love of money. Our lives will naturally attract like-minded people. When we love money, we attract others who love money. And the more reinforcement we receive from those around us, the more natural the emotion becomes.
* The love of money destroys other loves. The love of money causes many to sacrifice their true passions and desires just to acquire more of it. It has truly killed many a passionate dream. To determine if the love of money has killed your dreams, answer this question, “If the need for money were not a factor, what would I be doing today?”

How then do we move beyond the desire to acquire more? While entire books have been written on this subject, let me throw out a few thoughts just to get you started toward freedom from the desire to acquire:

1. See money only as a tool to move through life. At its core, money is a bartering tool. It saves us from making our own clothes, tools, and furniture. Because of currency, I can spend my days doing what I love and am good at. In exchange, I receive money to trade with someone else who uses their giftedness to create something different than me. That‘s it. That‘s its purpose. And if you have enough to meet your needs, you shouldn‘t commit the rest of your day to acquiring more.

2. Be content with poverty or great wealth. I know poor people who live in complete contentment and I know rich people who are further from contentment today than when they were lacking. Your possessions do not lead to contentment. Your heart attitude does. And if the love for money limits freedom, contentment is the pathway to it.

3. Avoid debt. A lender is a slave to his creditor. Spending more money than you earn will always result in bondage to another. And there is no simplicity in bondage. If you cannot get out from under the weight of debt, find some help.

4. Learn to share. Sharing your possessions with others benefits the borrower and the lender. So be a lender… and be a borrower.

5. Remember that money comes and money goes. Like the tides of the ocean, money rolls in and money rolls out. Sometimes, there is money left over at the end of the day and sometimes there is not enough. That is the very nature of money. Do not fear its cycles. Welcome them.

I have no hidden dreams of this post magically solving the world’s desire for more. I just hope it helps to balance mine…
Source: http://www.becomingminimalist.com/

The One Alone (7)

DAN ALLAH memperlihatkan kepada Nabi bahwa “segala sesuatu” tidak punya wujud dan Dia memperlihatkan kepada “segala sesuatu” sebagai Dia. Terlihat bahwa semua yang muncul sebagai selain Allah adalah wujud-Nya. Dia diperlihatkan segala sesuatu tanpa sebuah nama, tanpa waktu, tanpa kualitas, sebagai esensi Allah.

Nama sebuah benda diajukan oleh benda tersebut kepada orang yang menamainya, dan olehnya diberikan kepada yang lain. Dengan demikian, dalam sebuah benda, eksistensi benda tersebut dan eksistensi dirinya adalah ekivalen. Karena itu, ketika benda tersebut diketahui, diri tersebut diketahui dan ketika diri diketahui, Rabb pun diketahui.

Engkau mengira yang lainnya sebagai selain Allah. Tidak ada sesuatu pun selain Dia, tetapi engkau tidak mengetahui hal ini. Ketika engkau menatap-Nya, engkau tidak mengenali-Nya. Ketika rahasia terbuka kepadamu, engkau akan tahu bahwa engkau tidak lain adalah Dia. Kemudian engkau pun akan mengetahui bahwa engkau adalah orang yang Dia inginkan, (tetapi engkau tidak perlu menghilang) dan bahwa engkau adalah selamanya dan tidak akan musnah bersama waktu, karena tidak ada lintasan waktu. Sifat-sifatmu adalah kepunyaan-Nya. Tak syak lagi, penampilanmu adalah penampilan-Nya. Apa yang ada padamu, ada pada-Nya. Sebelummu adalah sebelum-Nya; setelahmu adalah setelah-Nya; esensimu adalah esensi-Nya—tanpa Dia merasukimu ataupun engkau merasuki-Nya, karena,

Segala sesuatu akan binasa, melainkan wajah-Nya (QS. al-Qashash: 88)

Bahwa yang eksis dan yang terlihat adalah Dia. Tidak ada sesuatu selain Dia, jadi, bagaimana bisa yang tidak ada berhenti untuk ada? Yang ada hanya Dia, Esensi-Nya, yang akan senantiasa ada. Karena itu, jika orang mengetahui bahwa sebuah benda eksis yang tidak bisa berhenti untuk eksis, maka keraguan dan ketidaktahuan tentang benda itu akan berhenti. Bahwa wujud bersifat abadi, tanpa mengalami perubahan menjadi wujud lain. Ketika orang yang yakin terhadap sebuah eksistensi bergabung dengan orang yang menolak eksistensi tersebut, mereka tidak [akan] menyatu. Sebaiknya, keraguan tentang eksistensi tersebut hilang.

(Bersambung, insya Allah)

Sumber: TOA, dalam What the Seeker Needs, hal.34)